#self-reflection

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La Primera Pared
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La Primera Pared

Una reflexiΓ³n sobre encontrar lΓ­mites biolΓ³gicos en la paternidad y cΓ³mo los lΓ­mites absolutos desafΓ­an las creencias sobre autonomΓ­a y capacidad.

On Testing Relationships (Not Ok!!!)
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On Testing Relationships (Not Ok!!!)

Years of testing people without calling it thatβ€”playing dumb, going distant, poking, provoking. Making connection into a test is not ok.

Who I Am Today: A Recovery Progress Report
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Who I Am Today: A Recovery Progress Report

Why I write, why I need systematic frameworks for basic human functions, and what recovery from narcissism and codependency actually looks like in practice.

Bend, Don't Break: Learning to Flow Again
14 min read

Bend, Don't Break: Learning to Flow Again

A personal essay about the psychological toll of extreme self-optimization, the breakdown of a 33-value system, and the path toward flexible strength through acceptance and presence.

I Became What I Used to Mock
7 min read

I Became What I Used to Mock

When an AI mirror shows you who you've become - a raw reflection on transformation, humility, and the unconscious arrogance of growth

The Paradox of Modernity: Progress Without Peace
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The Paradox of Modernity: Progress Without Peace

We are living in the most advanced moment in human history. And yet, we are also arguably the most confused, alienated, addicted, manipulated, and emotionally starved generation ever to exist. This is the paradox I cannot stop thinking about.

You are Joking, Right?
4 min read

You are Joking, Right?

Inner work is an ongoing process, and there’s some shame involved. Still, the focus should be on awareness, acceptance, and improvement…

Briefly on Empathy as a Double-Edged Sword
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Briefly on Empathy as a Double-Edged Sword

Discussion of empathy's challenges, including how sensitivity to suffering can lead to overwhelm. Explores the tension between compassion and self-preservation.

Note to Self: To Be or What Not to Be
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Note to Self: To Be or What Not to Be

To be negative, I must assume negativity; to be resentful, I must bear affliction; to be hateful, I must bring hate into my life. To be…

Reflections From a Tough Weekend
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Reflections From a Tough Weekend

A raw and honest reflection on processing emotional pain, self-healing, and the journey towards emotional wellbeing.

Notes on Respect
4 min read

Notes on Respect

A personal reflection on the transformative power of respect, self-worth, and healthy boundaries in personal growth and relationships.