🧘🏽‍♂️ Integration & Growth

Browse all writings in the Integration & Growth category

Bend, Don't Break: Learning to Flow Again
14 min read

Bend, Don't Break: Learning to Flow Again

A personal essay about the psychological toll of extreme self-optimization, the breakdown of a 33-value system, and the path toward flexible strength through acceptance and presence.

On Simplicity and Peace of Mind
4 min read

On Simplicity and Peace of Mind

A reflection on finding contentment and wholeness through simplicity, minimalism, and inner peace rather than material possessions

Sharpen Your Tools
2 min read

Sharpen Your Tools

Maintaining and honing your tools to maximize efficiency and practice excellence is critical- and elemental. Once one integrates this…

The inner work truly never ends.
4 min read

The inner work truly never ends.

At the end of March, I thought, “Wow, you are such a loser; you have no pictures to share,” that idea stunned me. Not only do I again…

Reflections From a Tough Weekend
3 min read

Reflections From a Tough Weekend

A raw and honest reflection on processing emotional pain, self-healing, and the journey towards emotional wellbeing.

Notes on Respect
4 min read

Notes on Respect

A personal reflection on the transformative power of respect, self-worth, and healthy boundaries in personal growth and relationships.

Notes On Self-Control
3 min read

Notes On Self-Control

A reflection on the power of self-control, curiosity, and value-based decision making in personal growth and emotional regulation.

Related Integration & Growth Writings

Writings that touch on Integration & Growth as a secondary topic

La Primera Pared
5 min read

La Primera Pared

Una reflexión sobre encontrar límites biológicos en la paternidad y cómo los límites absolutos desafían las creencias sobre autonomía y capacidad.

On Testing Relationships (Not Ok!!!)
5 min read

On Testing Relationships (Not Ok!!!)

Years of testing people without calling it that—playing dumb, going distant, poking, provoking. Making connection into a test is not ok.

Intelligence Burns
3 min read

Intelligence Burns

On intelligence as heat: power without empathy burns. Choosing aim, restraint, and environments built for your temperature—responsibility over being right.

Who I Am Today: A Recovery Progress Report
5 min read

Who I Am Today: A Recovery Progress Report

Why I write, why I need systematic frameworks for basic human functions, and what recovery from narcissism and codependency actually looks like in practice.

I Became What I Used to Mock
7 min read

I Became What I Used to Mock

When an AI mirror shows you who you've become - a raw reflection on transformation, humility, and the unconscious arrogance of growth

You are Joking, Right?
4 min read

You are Joking, Right?

Inner work is an ongoing process, and there’s some shame involved. Still, the focus should be on awareness, acceptance, and improvement…

Briefly on Empathy as a Double-Edged Sword
1 min read

Briefly on Empathy as a Double-Edged Sword

Discussion of empathy's challenges, including how sensitivity to suffering can lead to overwhelm. Explores the tension between compassion and self-preservation.

Note to Self: To Be or What Not to Be
1 min read

Note to Self: To Be or What Not to Be

To be negative, I must assume negativity; to be resentful, I must bear affliction; to be hateful, I must bring hate into my life. To be…